Be careful where you walk: Rule number 1

And Even more pick-up lines

– I saw you checking me out so I rather approached, because I don’t want to be scared at night, because of someone walking around my tent. – Hey babes, chill a little, there are some problems cooking here, right? – Maybe you’ll like me more when you see me for the third time. I went by twice already and none of you wanted to grab my butt. – Do you remember me? I was standing three meters from the stage when you stepped in. – Hey, are you ready to continue?

– Be careful where you walk. – Are you old enough to be working in a bar? – I take girls under their arms and say: Hey, where are you taking me tonight? – Cool scenes with a cell-phone, you put your cell-phone to her purse with your number memorized under answer, and you call her from another phone. – A cool scene for seaside, you come by with a towel on your back, you do half of a forward roll, you fall on the ground and lie there on the pillow with your hand under your head, and for a cool addition a friend tosses you a beer. – Your love for you is as a diarrhea, I cannot keep it to myself anymore.

If a guy goes to buy chewing gum in the store it looks like this: Puts something (whatever) on, goes to the car, drives to the first gas station, buys the first chewing gum he sees, goes home. If a girl buys chewing gum it looks like this: Gets ready, sits in the car, did I lock the door, what gas station should I go to, who will I bump into at the gas station, which chewing gum should I buy, is my hair all right, what if I meet a guy I like, should I also buy some milk?

The fear from rejection, being something you are not, accusing yourself.  Laughter is similar to alcohol, it is a social lubricant. Eye contact is a high status, if you don’t start blinking in a moment, but after a few seconds. The cocky comedy doesn’t provoke laughter with anything funny, but with something that is of high status.

Laughter awards the high status and tells I want to bond with you. You need to diss a girl in front of your friends a little, so they laugh at her. LAW. But do that only once, or twice the most. The humor doesn’t come from a joke but from the character. Always tell the obvious that is known but not spoken about.

Relationship cannot be based on comfort; 3 advices


This topic is a little bit more complicated. We all have to understand that when cheating appears we mustn’t blame ourselves or the partner. At least not after the attack of emotions of anger, sadness and rage come down. Everyone has his or her own life script, and his and her own psycho pathologies.

Cheating can come from the reasons we are not conscious of. If cheating repeats, it is a script problem of the cheating, as well as the cheated one. Here I will go over that kind of cheating that happens without pathology, problems that are reasons or that arise as consequences, and can be fixed without the help of a therapist. Cheating largely depends on love formula that we as individuals accept in early childhood, the same as who we will fall in love with.

But more about this the next time. The chief thing you have to understand is that relationships are not static. They are changing, growing, and improving all the time. If you don’t improve with them, you will be surpassed and outgrown. A successful relationship follows six rules that we will go over in detail later in this chapter, the first of which, called reinforcement, is the idea that both partners must improve each other in a relationship.

If you’re getting into a relationship to feel comfortable, you’re entering it with the intention to not grow and not change.

A relationship cannot be based on comfort – it must be based on improvement to be healthy. As long as you are together, she must help you to grow and you must help her to grow, even if that means acknowledging that her growth cannot continue with you. The next thing you have to accept is that if you get cheated on, it’s your fault not her fault. A woman cheats because she’s not getting something from you that she needs, and you lack the awareness to figure out what it is.

You are also too hurt and egomanical to let down your shields in order to tell her that you want her to explain her needs to you. If you find yourself in this situation, you probably arrived in it because you entered the relationship with the wrong intentions. Maybe you wanted a girlfriend as a status symbol, or perhaps you just wanted to prove to yourself that you could attract a beautiful woman – whatever the reason was, it definitely wasn’t growth. Dont’s * Don’t go through her emails, text messages, call history, or anything else along those lines. You’ll look like a psycho, and then she’ll have a real reason to cheat on you! If you have a problem, don’t let your insecurities take over.

Deal with your issues like a man, not like a little boy. * Don’t cheat on her as revenge. You won’t hurt her if you do this – you’ll make her feel better about cheating on you because it’ll reinforce the idea that she was right to do it. Break up with her if you think or know that she’s cheating. * Don’t freak out. I know that’s a very, very difficult rule to follow, but please keep yourself grounded. You will be hurt, you will be emotional, but don’t place blame where it doesn’t belong. You have to take responsibility for the outcomes of your relationships and learn from them.

Lemon Tart with Sugar Cookie Base for just 10 minutes

Heat up your Pizzelle Baker

Mix 2 cups flour
1 cup sugar
2 tsp baking powder
3/4 cup melted butter
1 tbsp vanilla (or anise)
4 eggs
Bake two at a time as per the instructions to
your Pizzelle Baker.

Let cool on a wire rack & dust with icing sugar for final touch. You can change flavour profile easily.

For example: Add 1 tsp of lemon juice and balance with 1 tsp sugar. Or, add 1 tbsp of cocoa for chocolate.


Bite Sized Chocolate Brownies

Preheat oven to 350 degrees F.

Whisk 2/4 cup flour
1/2 cup SIFTED cocoa
1/4 tsp salt
Mix 1 cup sugar
1/3 cup MELTED butter
2 large eggs
Combine wet and dry ingredients and FOLD in
chocolate chips.

You can bake in a square 8X8 pan or I prefer to fill mini muffin trays for real bite sized shape. Bake approximately 15-20 minutes. Let cool.


Chocolate Cake / Cupcakes


2 cups flour
1 tsp baking soda
1 tsp baking powder
1/2 tsp salt
3/4 cup cocoa powder
set aside


2 egMs
2 cups sugar
1 cup milk
1/2 cup vegetable oil
2 tsp vanilla
1 tbsp boiled water

Add dry ingredients to mixer slowly. Bake for approximately 45-60 minutes for cake. Bake for approximately 25 -30 minutes. Let cool.

Oatmeal Raisin: 10 minutes of cookineg

Preheat oven 350 degrees F

Cream 1 cup butter (softened)
1 1/4 cup brown sugar
Add 2 eggs
2 tbsp honey
1 1/2 cup flour
1 tsp baking soda
1 tsp cinnamon
Fold 3 cups of oats (one at a time)
1 cup of raisins

Bake for 10-15 minutes. For best results press to flatten before baking.


Sugar or Snicker doodle
(stand mixer preferred)
Cream 1 cup butter (soft)
1 cup white sugar
Add 2 eggs (one at a time)
1 tsp vanilla
1 tbsp baking powder
3 cups flour
3/4 tsp salt

Refrigerate for at least 1 hour. Preheat oven to 400 degrees F. Roll out and cut with cookie cuUers (or glass cup). Make it a Snicker doodle: roll cookies in cinnamon-sugar mixture. (1:2 ratio)

Bake for 6-8 minutes.



Puree fresh, washed raspberries and run through a sieve.
Mix 1 cup of soft butter and 1/2 cup raspberry puree until completely combined.
Add 2 1/2 cups icing sugar and continue to add 1/2 cups of icing sugar until desired consistency is achieved.

Best muffins: 1 egg recepie

Chocolate Chip

Heat oven to 400 degrees F. Line or grease 12 muffins cups.

Combine: 1/2 cup sugar
2 cups flour
3 tsp baking powder
1/2 tsp salt
3/4 cup chocolate chips
In a second bowl,
Mix/Blend: 3/4 cup milk
1/3 cup vegetable oil
1 egg

Combine the two bowls but do not over mix. Lumps are good. Let there be lumps. After filling your muffin cups 2/3 full sprinkle tops with a 2:3 tbsp mixture of brown and
white sugars.

Bake time approx 20-24 minutes.
Bake time approx 20-24 minutes.

Strawberry / Blueberry

Heat oven to 375 degrees F.
Line or grease 12 muffin cups .


2 cups flour
2 tsp baking powder
3/4 tsp salt
In stand mixer,


1/2 cup butter (soft)
1 cup sugar
2 large eggs (one at a time)
1 1/2 tsp vanilla extract
1/4 tsp almond extract (optional)


1/2 cup milk , in alternating
portions with the flour mixture

In a separate bowl,

2 cups of cut strawberries with; 2 tsp flour and FOLD into mixture. Scoop into muffin cups and top with left over strawberries and brown sugar. Bake time approx 30 minutes. Let cool.

ISPOVIJEST “Varala sam muža sa njegovim kumom”

Varala sam muža sa njegovim kumom… trajalo je to nekih 3 godine i onda sam neočekivano ostala trudna, UPRAVO SA KUMOM.

Imam 44 godine i kumu nisam spominjala trudnoću, već sam mu samo rekla da treba da prekinemo da se viđamo. Nije bilo lako,ali nekako smo prekinuli sa viđanjem.

Porodila sam se prije 3 godine i sve je bilo uredu, niko nije sumnjao da moj muž nije otac djeteta.

Međutim, od prvog dan, vjerovatno obzirom da znam čiji je, sin nevjerovatno liči na kuma, orginal, obrve, oči… lice… ma sve. Kažem sve je bilo uredu, ali prije nekih mjesec dana moj sin se razbolio i trebalo mu je dati krv… moja krv nije odgovarala i tražili su krv oca. ŠOK… Tada sam morala sve da priznam kumu, zbog čega sam raskinula sa njim… Kada sam mu rekla da je moj sin, NJEGOV SIN, vjerovali ili ne zaplakao je od sreće. Tada mi je priznao da je od rođenja sumnjao, ali nije se usudio da pita. Sredio je u bolnici sve što je trebalo, dao je krv i nekako se sve zataškalo.


Šta je najzanimljivije od svega… Ova krizna situacija, koja je mogla uništiti živote svihi nas mene i kuma je spojila ponovo i nakon nekih 4 godine ponovo smo u “vezi”…

Osjećam se bolje nago ikada, jedino me nekada bude sramota same sebe…

ISPOVIJEST “Moj muž zadnjih mjesec dana ne obraća pažnju na mene”

Moj muž je zadnjih mjesec dana totalno oslabio “u krevetu”. U zadnjih mjesec dana, nismo spavali 5-6 puta i kada god želim, potenciram to, on je ili umoran ili mu se “ne diže”… Sve mi je to izgledalo kao da me vara. Nisam znala kako da ga razotkrijem, jer su mu i telefon i profil bili “čisti” i pretpostavljam da ima lažne profile, drugi telefon koji krije i tako to.

Sinoć sam slagala da idem mojim roditeljima i da ću kod njih noćiti, a ustvari sam bila cijelu veče u parku iz kojeg se vidi naš stan. Oko 9 sati vidjela sam odraze od dvije osobe u stanu, bilo mi je jasno :(…

Popela sam se i stojala ispred ulaznih vrata, čekajući da se sve u stanu završi i da se pojave ispred mene. Vrijeme je prolazilo, sat po sat, noge su mi već bile otečene od čekanja i stojanja i ujutro oko 8 sati otključavaju se vrata i izlaze moj muž i njegov najbolji drug.

Baš sam se šokirala, kada sam pomislila da ne može gore, shvatim da je moj muž… BOŽE!!! Nisam uspjela ništa ni reći, a moj muž me upitao od kud tebe ovako rano kući, šta tašta toliko hrče da si ih morala napustiti tako brzo… Otišli su niz stepenice, a ja pod šokom ušla u stan i ponovo čekala, čekala da se on vrati da definitivno razjasni cijelu situaciju. Kada je napokon stigao, rekoa mi je da sam totalni ludak, i da su gledali utakmicu, zapili se i da ništa nije bilo. Ne znam, nešto mu baš i ne vjerujem…”


Will he regret losing me?

That’s the most frequent question every woman asks herself after ending a relationship.

In fact, some of us don’t even ask ourself, we take that question and turn it into a vow.

We swear to God that he WILL regret losing us.

Well, that’s anger and hurt talking.

That’s not exactly what we feel at that moment.

It’s more of a vindictive instinct rather than a true feeling.

When we get dumped, we only feel pain and humiliation.

We mope around, wondering how it all got to the point we are at now.

That can get pretty frustrating.

Close-up of a sad and depressed woman

One moment, you have a best friend by your side and the next, you’re completely alone.

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The next moment that best friend is not your friend anymore.

His title has become ex-boyfriend, your ex-boyfriend definitely responsible for losing you as he will realize later on.

So, yes… I have the answer to your question and the answer is YES!

He WILL regret losing a good woman like you. Stay with me to find out how to recognize when that moment comes.

  1. He calls you often
    Concerned Man Talking On Mobile Phone

Although he broke up with you, he is still in contact with you.

This can be interpreted in two ways.

Firstly, maybe he really doesn’t have any romantic feelings left for you but he wants to remain friends’ he wants to keep what you had alive and turn it into friendship.

Secondly, it’s very possible that he truly regrets his decision and that’s why he’s calling and texting you.

It’s very possible that all the friends stuff is pure BS and the true intention behind his behavior is simple—he wants you back.

The only way you’re going to find out what his intentions are is if you carefully look at his behavior and the reason why he chooses to do something related to you.

For example, why is he calling you?

How often is he calling you?

Is he calling you right after you broke up or a few weeks after?

The last question is particularly important.

The time he’s calling you has a great influence on what is really going on inside his mind.

For example, if he’s calling you right after you broke up, or the day after or even a week after, he is probably feeling guilty, which means it’s not real regret.

But if some time passes, two weeks or more, and he starts to call you then you should probably start thinking in ‘ex regret’ mode.

  1. He knows he screwed things up with a good woman
    Happy Couple Drinking Wine And Watching Tv,

Men sometimes don’t know how to appreciate something they have at that exact moment.

At that time, he has no idea he will be regretting whatever hasty decision he is making.

After breaking up with you, he will remember how spending time with you made his life more beautiful.

For some reason, he has given up on everything you had and now he aches for the serious relationship he had with you.

Maybe the timing wasn’t right for him, maybe he was too inexperienced to invest his time and love in you.

Whatever the reason is and it’s possible that he didn’t even have a reason, he is crying over the true love he once had.

  1. He became a loner
    Young man is looking at the sunrise

Over time, he has retreated into his own life.

Whether in real life or on social media life, he tends to operate situations all by himself.

What does that mean? He stays away from people and he does everything he can all by himself.

He simply went ‘no contact‘.

And why is he doing that?

The simplest explanation and the one playing in your favor is he wants his ex back.

He is choosing to be alone to plant a message in your subconscious that he’s available for you to come back to him.

This could easily be classified as manipulation but desperate times seek desperate measures.

And he is really desperate in trying to win you back.

  1. Now he knows you can do better
    beautiful clever cute charming attractive elegant owner

‘I want you back’ is his thoughts exactly.

When he was with you, he didn’t appreciate you.

He took you for granted because he didn’t think you were that special.

However, when he jumped into the dating pool, the tables turned.

Suddenly, he came to the realization that every time he would meet someone else, she wouldn’t be good enough, she wouldn’t be as nearly as perfect as you.

But that is something I’ve already talked about.

When men have things in their life, they don’t know how to appreciate them until they lose them.

You are exactly the same kind of thing and now he regrets making that terrible decision of breaking up with you.

Although, somewhere deep inside his mind, he wants what’s best for you, he is well aware that you are so much better than him and that you can do so much better.

  1. He goes on a drunken spree
    Group of young men toasting at a nightclub

Something is bothering him and he’s drowning his sorrows in alcohol.

He’s acting all crazy, talking to strange women in bars.

Naturally, his friends would say that he’s moving on, trying to find someone else because he’s completely over you, which is so far away from the actual truth.

Men who drink continuously and flirt with other women every night are men who are deeply unhappy.

He is trying to fill the void he has from the moment he broke up with you.

This proves to be true even more if he drunk-dials you.

All of his drunken attempts to hit on other women are actually cries for help.

He will never sleep with anyone, nor will he hit on other women.

The only one he wants is you and he’s regretting he let you go in the first place.

  1. His social media posts are suspicious
    Group of friends celebrating with champagne

His Facebook posts, his Tweets or his Instagram pics are designed to look he’s having the best time ever.

Don’t fall for the cheapest trick in the book.

The harsh reality is that he is not having a good time, he just wants you and everybody else to think that.

Because the truth is far more complicated than it seems.

The truth is he’s hurting and regretting he ever let you go.

That false happiness is designed to deceive people who don’t know him that well.

You are not one of those people and if you look closely, you’ll notice that something’s wrong with his posts.

Maybe they even seem too happy, far happier than they should.

So, the next time you open up his profile to do some snooping, leave your emotions behind because he’s aiming right at them.

He’s manipulating you into thinking he doesn’t need you and he never needed you.

  1. He’ll go after your best friend for information
    Nice pleasant couple talking to each other

Be positive that he will be suspiciously close to your best friend. He will stay in contact with you too but he won’t be able to ask you all kinds of information he wants to know about you, e.g. how you’re doing and how you’re handling him not being around.

For that, he has a different plan.

He’s coming after your best friend and not only them but all the people who know you and are around you.

To convince yourself that he is indeed regretting his stupid decision of leaving you, ask around to confirm your suspicions.

If he’s contacting your best friend, then you shouldn’t have second thoughts about your assumptions.

Now that you know the signs he’s regretting he left you, you can decide what to do next.

If it turns out that he is truly sorry he left, your decision is the most important one in that scenario.

Is he worthy of you coming back or are you going to move on with your life after having the closure that you needed?

Or is it the other way around?

Is he cold-blooded and doesn’t give the slightest damn that you’re no longer together?

If that’s the case, you can take care of it without any fuss.

You can make him regret losing you.

Before I write anything else, I want you to know that you shouldn’t give a sh*t about someone who hurt you or disrespected you.

But I’m a woman and I understand.

I know that you’re burning with desire to get an answer to that question of whether he regrets losing you.

We all do, in fact.

We are all human. We all have blood running through our veins and we all feel pain.

If this question doesn’t bother you then you have to think hard about if something’s wrong with you.

If this is the first time something like this happened to you, read carefully how to make him regret losing you:

  1. Get your ex-boyfriend back by bringing up the good ol’ days
    Happy woman with white bikini

Make him regret losing you by bringing up your old memories.

Emotionally ambush him and leave him no choice but to want you back.

Play this tactic carefully because you don’t want to overdo it.

You don’t want to bring positive emotions from your relationship back to make them look forced.

They have to be presented with ease, so he doesn’t suspect that you’re planning anything.

Subtly remind him of the good times you’ve had and the places you visited.

Remind him of how you laughed together by bringing up the funny situations you’ve been in.

However, involving emotions doesn’t have to be limited only to good times.

If you’ve been through anything bad together, remind him how you were there for each other when you needed each other.

It’s important to bring back the memories which will make him realize what a catch you actually are.

Because flaws… we all have them.

No one can guarantee him that he will find a girl whose flaws won’t bother him.

  1. Why did he fall for you in the first place?
    Handsome young man and attractive young woman are spending time together.

Once again, bring back the old memories but this time turn up your confidence to the highest.

You had him once, you can have him again.

Just think hard about what you did the first time.

Maybe you’ve changed over time and he fell out of love with you.

Maybe all he wants is that old you back.

Take a look at what you were and bring that lady back!

  1. Fill your life with positivity
    Beautiful young woman leaning at her bicycle

Even if he left you, don’t be bitter.

Don’t be sad and don’t let anything bring you down.

Have you ever heard that bad energy brings out the negative in your life?

When you’re thinking about something negative, odds are that it’s actually going to happen to you.

So, out with the negativity, in with the positivity.

Being positive and having positive thoughts will definitely attract good things to happen to you.

You’ll even look different if you put your thoughts in order—you’ll become more attractive.

So, let’s wrap up everything we’ve been talking about.

Will he regret losing me, you wonder?

There are signs that clearly show that his decision was probably the worst one he ever made.

If you look at the signs and discover he is indeed regretting it, you can take the next step.

On the other hand, it’s possible he is completely fine with the two of you breaking up.

In that case, look for for different solutions.